I've met a few playmates in reality. All but one have been subject to ignorance.
Once the camera is not turned on, and all the make up and mambo jambo surrounding the glamor shots isn't there. Them playmates turn pretty fast into just another average girl. And very easy to resist....
The one exception was the sister of a friend of mine, and she was a one of a kind human being. We met before I met my wife, and if things would have gone different, she could have become my wife. We got along extremely well. She was exactly 21 minutes younger than me. Totally fell in love with her personality. One day, she had to move to another city, so i was told.... What I didn't know was, that she was terminally ill. Passed away shortly after, and that was that..