Hahaha, I will keep that part to myself from now on, so you can remove the earplugs now.
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I'm not making him, he said he wanted to do so in order to work it all out. If that's what he wants to do, then I'm not going to stop him from talking to him on his own free will.
Im not disagreeing with talking to people on here that is why.
What I disagree with is the way she went about it first. from her early'er post I quoted a few times she talked to him at that point the subject should have been left alone anything more then its clear there is a trust issue like she already said there was.
coming here or her family first is one thing coming here/family after she done talked to him is another.
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No your not going to stop him but you did force him to talk to your family because you talked to them about it after already talking to him.
He is now forced to tell his side of the story due to how you acted.
And like a said if a gf/wife of mine showed that kind of lack of trust to me i would tell her to hit the bricks. You already talked to him it should have been left at that anything more shows there is no trust.
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The personal attacks on this person are unnecessary and a waste of everyone's time. If you don't have constructive advice don't post.
No. Just no. You expect him to not only face your family on a daily basis knowing that they think he's a disgusting pervert, but to actually sit down and talk to them about it, where he'll be expected to listen to them yell and say nothing other than, "Yes, I was wrong." Let the man keep at least a shred of dignity, please. You talk to them, and tell them that you overreacted, whether you actually feel you did or not. Support your husband by taking a little of this onto yourself and making his life easier. He may have been wrong in his choice of when to watch porn, but you were also wrong in your choice of how to handle it. Face the consequences of that like an adult, don't force him to do it for you.
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What the what...? NOBODY who she's getting advice from here knows who she is or who he is. There's no humiliation to be had when you don't even know the damn person.
"Insulted on the web" is about as bad as someone telling someone else that you're a bitch on the opposite side of the world who you neither know nor care about.
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Wow, what an insane thread and what an even more insane overreaction by you.
Going to his work to discuss it asap.. it's a little weird but I get that because of the home situation it was the right call. This is where the whole situation should have been over..
Either he told you exactly what happened and that the child wasn't exposed to anything and you drop the subject, or you find out the child WAS exposed to it (doubtful) and as a result you immediately go home and pack his shit and call a divorce lawyer.
I feel like we're missing an important step, like.. what actually happened? Did he tell you what happened? Were you okay with his answer?
Going to your parents was a massive mistake and it will put a huge strain on what you've already described as a troubled relationship.