So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first, thats ok
but how the hell do you deal with this?
me: bla bla bla
her: haha
me: bla bla bla
her: lol
me: bla bla bla
her: *insert some stupid variation of haha, lol or a smiley face*
me: disconnects
im at a complete loss for words
and no, she is not disinterested because after i quit messaging her she messages me a day or 2 later "why did you stop talking to me?"