If your girlfriend cheated on you with another girl...

[Glaziola]

Id be sad she didn't invite me to watch.

Not just watch but participate in the threesome ^^

But on topic yeah i'd be pissed.

[DisposableHero]

^^ This ^^.

A relationship is between two people, the addition of a third regardless of gender is against the rules of a relationship.

It depends on the relationship. If my wife came to me and told me she was bisexual, and she wanted to have sex with another woman, barring a huge number of questions I would ask pursuant to fantasies about having threesomes, I would be ok with that. If she came to me after the fact and told me she was bisexual and had previously had sex with another woman during our relationship, I would feel deeply betrayed and upset, because she didn't feel enough trust to ask me about it. If she is attracted to other women and wants to have sex with them, I don't really feel threatened by that. The critical part of cheating is the emotional betrayal and the lack of trust it implies. I would be upset about that regardless of gender.

In short, I would be fine with my wife having sex with other women, but not cheating on me with them.

[Raintola]

If my girlfriend cheated on me with a fuckin girl I would be pissed. That she didn't let me watch.

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I find it awesome. Because that would mean 3 ways are coming my way.

If they were into that. What if they weren't?

[Deleted]

It depends on the relationship. If my wife came to me and told me she was bisexual, and she wanted to have sex with another woman, barring a huge number of questions I would ask pursuant to fantasies about having threesomes, I would be ok with that. If she came to me after the fact and told me she was bisexual and had previously had sex with another woman during our relationship, I would feel deeply betrayed and upset, because she didn't feel enough trust to ask me about it. If she is attracted to other women and wants to have sex with them, I don't really feel threatened by that. The critical part of cheating is the emotional betrayal and the lack of trust it implies. I would be upset about that regardless of gender.

In short, I would be fine with my wife having sex with other women, but not cheating on me with them.

So you don't associate sex with your wife, nice.

[StayTuned]

Do you guys imagine it always be a very hot girl that your girlfriend is going to be with? Her taste into women might not be yours.
What if the women she wants to have sex with is someone like this?
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You still get turned on because its a woman? Or like the idea your girlfriend is eating muffins at her bakery ?
I wonder if guys automaticly think its going to be a hot girl they'd like to see.
[MG]http://blog.needsupply.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/tumblr_kqliuyLoBp1qze4yoo1_400.png[/IMG]


Or do you feel like you get to decide what kind of girl she sleeps with?

#1 insta break up

#2 ask for threesome


if #2 false, break up


Yes, I'm a simpleton. But I am sure that I am not the only one who thinks like this.

[WaitingforMoP]

I'd be disgusted and confused with her......

[Garkanh]

i would be more pissed about turning my girlfriend into a lesbian...


hold that thought.. my bi-sexual ex actually got together with a trans girl after me.. :O and i just though about this now... thanks alot, this thread just ruined my confidence...

[Deleted]

i would be more pissed about turning my girlfriend into a lesbian...

Sleeping once with the same sex makes you automatically gay? New info for me..

[Ciddy]

LAWL OH MY GOD I WOULD GET A THREESOME. K but all 15-year old stupidity aside..


It's still cheating, I'd break up with the broad.

I was very tempted to make a "I dunno, I'd be kinda turned on by it" joke here, but seriously, I probably agree with this.

[King Shark]

So you don't associate sex with your wife, nice.

I like how your post seems to come off as judgmental and condescending, in regards to this man and his relationship with his wife.

[insmek]

I wouldn't be nearly as angry as I would be if it were with a man. Double standard, I know, but it's hot to think about and I can't stay mad when I'm this turned on.

[Drfireburns]

Cheating is cheating in my book. It would also make me feel like I wasn't doing things right in bed.

[Bryntrollian]

I don't find it "hot" at all. I watch a lot of porn and lesbian porn does absolutely nothing for me.

My perception on life is just different than yours. Some couples are more open about things than others are. It really isn't your place to discuss how sad or good my relationship is.

And just to let you know, I have a really, really good sex life with my partner, we never fight at all, and we do lots of things in between. I even got her watching anime with me!

So what you are saying is that the porn is only good if there is a man in it

[Lily Crowley]

I don't mind my significant other having sex with someone of the same gender IF they ask me about it first. We're pretty open like that. Heck, I'd even say yes if they asked me to join in!

If my SO did it behind my back however, yes that is most definitely cheating.

It doesn't matter what gender you are or which gender you do it with, if you do it without your spouses approval or knowledge, IT IS CHEATING.

[Deleted]

I like how your post seems to come off as judgmental and condescending, in regards to this man and his relationship with his wife.

You mean people are judgemental?? Your post judged me! Seriously, we're all judgemental about certain topics. Don't be surprised by it.

I'm judgemental about "open" relationships, because most of the time it's about one partner holding onto the other irrespective of the circumstances.

[ciggy]

I wonder how much you actually care about your girlfriend if you don't mind her cheating even if girl on girl is something you find to be hot. Honestly i find it pathethic

sad in all honesty. I don't understand what gets into people's heads. Cheating is fucking cheating.

[Deleted]

sad in all honesty. I don't understand what gets into people's heads. Cheating is fucking cheating.

You've to remember the age group of the forums. Everyone thinks multiple partners is "sexy" at some point in their development. Also the types of relationships that people have are so brief and fuelled by self indulgence, that it's no wonder people think all their needs should be met. If they can't be met by one person, well they'll get them somewhere else.

[Tikaru]

I've actually been in that situation, it still sucks. I've had a GF cheat on me with a guy and a GF cheat on me with a woman. They both equally hurt.

It's a trust issue, plain and simple. You trusted them and they broke that trust.

[Time Sage]

Being gay, this topic is uttterly forign to me. That said, I am mentally compareing this to my bf hooking up with a woman. And honestly, I'd be pissed. Some of you need to grow up past the "hurrr hur, girl on girl is hot" and think about your priorites in a relationship.

[Jessani]

cheating is cheating, it brings emotions out that will or can destroy relationships.

Pretty much this. Of course, some men and women have different standards, so they may not care.