Hey,
first thing... I'm not a newb when it comes to women, I had my fair share of GFs in the past (although no one lasted longer than a year), but Im no womanizer either.
Anyway, I met this great girl on the net on a dating website a few weeks ago. Good looks (1 year older than me but I don't care at all) and great character. We met 4 times so far, 2 times on a christmas fair, 1 time we went to the movies (Cloud Atlas) and the 4th time I went to her home and she made dinner + we watched Forrest Gump afterwards.
We really had fun all those dates, talked all the time about various RL stuff and on the 4th date at her home made out for almost 2 hours straight on her couch (slight petting included but she stopped me when I tried to do more hehe, but I was fine with that). "No need to rush things", is what I thought. But I felt like there was a connection and it was a really good atmosphere.
The morning after she wrote me that she really enjoyed the evening and wanted to meet again, I proposed another date at my home this time to return the favour (dinner wise and all).
But 1 day before the date she wrote me another message, saying that she noticed she doesn't have those feelings for me to take it to the next level. She enjoyed spending time with me but it wasn't enough for more. I was like because I thought it was going really well so far, observing her behaviour when we were together.
So either she was being a very good actress when we were making out or she changed her mind in the days after?!
I know that nobody can help me with this and I will move on, but still I just had to share, maybe that will make me feel better.