Ok it's not a typical love triangle but here's the situation:
A close friend of mine had feelings for this girl but she didn't feel the same about him. Instead of telling him outright I the beginning that she didn't feel romantically attracted to him she gave him excuses like "I don't date friends" and other similar things. Now, he accepted these reasons and still maintained a very close relationship with her for a few years while keeping himself in denial about his romantic feelings.
Within the last month, I started to help her buy a new car (friend A knows nothing about cars). During this time I had a lot of fun with her, we flirted a lot and she began having romantic feelings for me. I didn't feel the same at first, but we grew close. Eventually we hooked up and we've been great.
The problem: once the girl and I decided to actively date, we had to let our friend know. He didn't take it well. I should reiterate that they were the emotional support systems for each other even though they never became romantically involved. He had a conversation with her and both of them were very emotional and he decided he needed to stop seeing her indefinitely. He mentioned shortly after that he didn't have an issue with me, it was issues between the two of them. However, we haven't spoken since (2 weeks now) and when making plans with mutual friends he doesn't want me along. I tried texting him to see if we can hang out and try to be normal but he hasn't said anything back (that was on Sunday morning).
Here's where I need advice and I know a gaming forum probably isn't the best place but I feel comfortable here. What should I do? Just leave him for now and hope he comes around? Be aggressive and confront him about the situation and force him to talk about it? Or keep casually texting him hoping one day he'll bite the bullet?
UPDATE: View my post on page 7 for updates.