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    Sportsmanship vs success. Which do you value more and why?

    Personally I believe the latter is more important, and I do not understand why some people place so much importance on the former that they would rather lose gracefully than win by "cheating" (which I also feel is a poor argument as a lot of people make the definition out to be much broader than it really is).

    EDIT: By "cheating" I am referring to the breaking of moral, 'unwritten' rules as opposed to the real, written ones.
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    Because those who follow the rules and are held to their restrictions and STILL win or succeed look way better than someone who took the easy way out. That and if you get caught, you face punishment and removal of everything you got.

    But there will always be people who don't care how they look, just so long as they get ahead.
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    Always sportsmanship.
    Beeing a good personality is way harder than having success. Also to have success you need to act quite egoistic at times which is despise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Decklan View Post
    But there will always be people who don't care how they look, just so long as they get ahead.
    That's the thing though - why is having a good public image important?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    That's the thing though - why is having a good public image important?
    Its not if you're selfish, although it could lead to a sudden drop of sponsors, which means drop ins cash.

    Teams could also drop you as being more trouble than you're worth despite your talant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ripponesan View Post
    Always sportsmanship.
    Beeing a good personality is way harder than having success. Also to have success you need to act quite egoistic at times which is despise.
    I remember hearing most of the people knowing Michael Phelps say he is a douchebag. He doesnt even HAVE to be egoistic - like in teamsports where you want to standout. He is just a jerk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crissi View Post
    Its not if you're selfish, although it could lead to a sudden drop of sponsors, which means drop ins cash.
    Sponsors ought to be the last people on Earth to favor behavior over results. Why would they associate themselves with someone who isn't as good?

    Quote Originally Posted by Crissi View Post
    Teams could also drop you as being more trouble than you're worth despite your talant.
    Their loss, your gain as you wouldn't have to deal with them and their overall performance would drop.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    That's the thing though - why is having a good public image important?
    It's a matter of honor. In a competition you give your opponents a fair chance, and they do the same for you. What's the point of competing if somebody is cheating?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    Sponsors ought to be the last people on Earth to favor behavior over results. Why would they associate themselves with someone who isn't as good?



    Their loss, your gain as you wouldn't have to deal with them and their overall performance would drop.
    Money. Sponsors want money, and if tons of people start boycotting them because of their dislike of who they are sponsoring, they WILL drop them.

    Same thing with teams. If your coach is spending more time managing a trouble player instead of coaching, your team is collectively better without him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tzalix View Post
    It's a matter of honor. In a competition you give your opponents a fair chance, and they do the same for you.
    What's the point of competing if, for the sake of this 'honor', you have to perform at less than 100%?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tzalix View Post
    What's the point of competing if somebody is cheating?
    The only thing I'm taking into account is the breaking of so-called 'unwritten' rules. Breaking the real ones should be punished accordingly.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    That's the thing though - why is having a good public image important?
    Well times ahve changed and it saddens me to admit that you are right. Today it is not important anymore for most parts what other do think of you. But in former times where you might had the bad luck to rely on the help of others to get back on track a image was very important as people tend to help more/better/more willing if they like you.

    Tho today if you go for social help it is not important if people think you are cool or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crissi View Post
    Money. Sponsors want money, and if tons of people start boycotting them because of their dislike of who they are sponsoring, they WILL drop them.
    Then doesn't that, in most cases, put the people at fault? You can't lose something without gaining something in return, and the fanbase gained through your results should make up for the part of the fanbase lost due to your behavior. At least I would assume that's the case, unless more people value emotion or subjectiveness rather than logic or objectiveness, which would be sad.

    Quote Originally Posted by Crissi View Post
    Same thing with teams. If your coach is spending more time managing a trouble player instead of coaching, your team is collectively better without him.
    Once again, why is the player at fault here? Synergy or the lack of it isn't necessarily due to one of the parts being ruly or unruly.

    Also no, if anything the rest of the team would only be better off spiritually (as in they would feel more at ease without said player being on the team), and imo if you have too many of those then you have a weak and easily malleable team.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    What's the point of competing if, for the sake of this 'honor', you have to perform at less than 100%?
    100% is the best you can do, without any performance-enhancement. If you do the best you can do within the limitations of the competition, you have performed 100%.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tzalix View Post
    100% is the best you can do, without any performance-enhancement. If you do the best you can do within the limitations of the competition, you have performed 100%.
    Read above. I'm pretty sure you're missing the point.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    Then doesn't that, in most cases, put the people at fault? You can't lose something without gaining something in return, and the fanbase gained through your results should make up for the part of the fanbase lost due to your behavior. At least I would assume that's the case, unless more people value emotion or subjectiveness rather than logic or objectiveness, which would be sad.



    Once again, why is the player at fault here? Synergy or the lack of it isn't necessarily due to one of the parts being ruly or unruly.

    Also no, if anything the rest of the team would only be better off spiritually (as in they would feel more at ease without said player being on the team), and imo if you have too many of those then you have a weak and easily malleable team.
    Yeah, i do think the majoority would put a guy donating time and money into a kids cancer research more important than acting like a fool at a club or stealing the opposing team's playbook,

    You clearly dont have a good understanding on how teams work then if you think getting rid of a troublesome player only affects them "spiritually". This goes beyond the sports field and into the real world such a school projects and buisnesses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    Read above. I'm pretty sure you're missing the point.
    I've read every post here, I don't know what point it is your talking about? You're saying that success is more important than sportsmanship, that you'd rather win by cheating than lose gracefully. I'm saying that a competition is pointless if somebody is gonna cheat. The point of having a competition is to see who performs better under equal circumstances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tzalix View Post
    I've read every post here, I don't know what point it is your talking about? You're saying that success is more important than sportsmanship, that you'd rather win by cheating than lose gracefully. I'm saying that a competition is pointless if somebody is gonna cheat. The point of having a competition is to see who performs better under equal circumstances.
    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    The only thing I'm taking into account is the breaking of so-called 'unwritten' rules. Breaking the real ones should be punished accordingly.
    That's the point you're missing. Your definition of 'cheating' is too broad, if not downright wrong.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    That's the point you're missing. Your definition of 'cheating' is too broad, if not downright wrong.
    exactly what kind of rules are you talking about that you CANT get into major trouble for?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    That's the point you're missing. Your definition of 'cheating' is too broad, if not downright wrong.
    So what if a rule is unwritten? You still know that it's a rule. You know that you are breaking it. You're just trying to argue around it because you don't want to look at yourself as a cheater, yet you'd knowingly break "unwritten" rules. That's still cheating, doesn't matter if it's unwritten or not.
    "In life, I was raised to hate the undead. Trained to destroy them. When I became Forsaken, I hated myself most of all. But now I see it is the Alliance that fosters this malice. The human kingdoms shun their former brothers and sisters because we remind them what's lurking beneath the facade of flesh. It's time to end their cycle of hatred. The Alliance deserves to fall." - Lilian Voss

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tzalix View Post
    So what if a rule is unwritten? You still know that it's a rule.
    It's not a rule, that's the thing. It's just something that people expect you to do for the sake of 'manners' or something similar.

    Quote Originally Posted by Coffer View Post
    You know that you are breaking it. You're just trying to argue around it because you don't want to look at yourself as a cheater, yet you'd knowingly break "unwritten" rules. That's still cheating, doesn't matter if it's unwritten or not.
    Once again, your definition of cheating is downright wrong, to the point where I'd gladly be a 'cheater' in your eyes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crissi View Post
    exactly what kind of rules are you talking about that you CANT get into major trouble for?
    Moral and social rules.


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