Folly and fakery have always been with us... but it has never before been as dangerous as it is now, never in history have we been able to afford it less. - Isaac Asimov
Every damn thing you do in this life, you pay for. - Edith Piaf
The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command. - Orwell
No amount of belief makes something a fact. - James Randi
Folly and fakery have always been with us... but it has never before been as dangerous as it is now, never in history have we been able to afford it less. - Isaac Asimov
Every damn thing you do in this life, you pay for. - Edith Piaf
The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command. - Orwell
No amount of belief makes something a fact. - James Randi
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
Folly and fakery have always been with us... but it has never before been as dangerous as it is now, never in history have we been able to afford it less. - Isaac Asimov
Every damn thing you do in this life, you pay for. - Edith Piaf
The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command. - Orwell
No amount of belief makes something a fact. - James Randi
the whole getting married thing is a sham anyways. i wish the government would just get rid of marriage altogether.
The argument that religion or faith has any baring on marriage is fake, because they are talking about weddings. Because a wedding has nothing to do with a license. A wedding without a marriage license is not fake, basing the legality of marriage on ceremonies is a concept that is fake.
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I don't necessarily agree. There is plenty of benefit in encouraging people to pair up.
Folly and fakery have always been with us... but it has never before been as dangerous as it is now, never in history have we been able to afford it less. - Isaac Asimov
Every damn thing you do in this life, you pay for. - Edith Piaf
The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command. - Orwell
No amount of belief makes something a fact. - James Randi
If it isn't a legal marriage, it isn't a real marriage. It has as much relevance and importance as when your 6 year old daughter "marries" her teddy bear. Having a ceremony doesn't make it real.
That doesn't mean people can't have a fun party, but a marriage that isn't legal basically amounts to a declaration that you're going steady. There's no legal bearing. If you aren't legally married, you get no tax breaks. If your "spouse's" name is on the house, they don't need to divorce you; they just need to change the locks and call the cops to have you arrested if you won't leave them alone. If they become ill, you cannot visit your "spouse" at the hospital, and have no authority to make end-of-life decisions.
That's why we're saying it's not real. It carries no rights or privileges. It's like a christening; if you christen your child one name, but filled out their birth certificate with another, whatever you christened them with is not their name. It doesn't matter if it has personal meaning, since the entire point of these kinds of ceremonies is to communicate that meaning to others.
By this same token, you can "marry" your toaster. Whether that has personal meaning to you or not is irrelevant; you aren't actually married to your toaster.
I'm talking about weddings. What makes a fake wedding?
Legal binding is what defines marriage. The wedding that takes place in a church is defined by the church. Wedding and marriage are not the same thing and every plea to define marriage in a religious ceremony is a lie appealing to emotions.
That's the very point I am trying to (failing) make. The reason a wedding is 'fake' is only because government is what defines marriage, not the church it's performed in. As in, religion has nothing to do with marriage. Religion is tied to weddings, not marriage.
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No, you can wed a toaster. You cannot marry one.
Folly and fakery have always been with us... but it has never before been as dangerous as it is now, never in history have we been able to afford it less. - Isaac Asimov
Every damn thing you do in this life, you pay for. - Edith Piaf
The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command. - Orwell
No amount of belief makes something a fact. - James Randi
Well don't know if y'all heard but they just lifted the ban 25 days early. First gay couple was married outside San Francisco city hall at 4:15 this afternoon.
That fabric softener teddy bear...oooh I'm 'a hunt that little bitch down.
Well, the purpose of a wedding is to celebrate and perform the marriage of two people. If, however, the marriage itself isn't condoned or allowed by the state, then the wedding itself is a sham. So for example if a gay couple were to have a wedding ceremony in Texas, regardless of what it would mean to them, it wouldn't be a real wedding because they wouldn't be getting married.