Okay Okay.
If I've understood this correctly...
A guy, who has a girlfriend, goes out drinking with his friends. He get's shitfaced. A girls starts talking to him, after a while she ask him if he wants to come back to her place, the guy says yes. They have sex. The guy wakes up the morning after, realizing what hes done.
In this scenario the guy can legally call it rape and the woman will then be sent to prison for a few years for raping him. Correct? No
This will never happen and everyone would laugh in the guys face as he tries to make his case.
If the tables were turned and it was in fact a woman in the mans place, the guy would get crucified and be called a rapist for the rest of his life if he does not in fact go straight to jail.
I know that this is a very specific scenario and that most cases doesn't go about like this, but I do not think that the case I presented is that unusual either. Just less heard of since it doesn't get reported as much. Same with any kind of domestic violence, physical or psychological.
But is this scenario, where a guy is taken advantage of while he is in no state to make a conscious decision, should it be called rape? If not then it shouldn't the other way around either, but yet it does, IF the woman says it was rape.
Just this one scenario shows that the balance in the view on rape is not centered. Should it be? Yes. Is it? No, and will probably not be for a very long time.