Kael'thas was bugged. It's hard to kill a boss that all of your healers have threat on as soon as he activates.
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End bosses are designed with the intent that you gear up before you kill them. There's nothing wrong with this. You are making an assumption, however, that gear is the only issue. These hardcore guilds, as good as they are, still need to practice the mechanics.