Originally Posted by
Compstance
This is an absurd argument. Competition is what drives some people whether it be real life or a game, and to suggest that people with a competitive spirit "have no life" is just a ridiculous attempt to make yourself feel better about not being competitive. And in that competitive spirit, there's a certain satisfaction with winning and being rewarded. Hell, there's a certain satisfaction even when you don't win, but you can cheer on someone who DID win that prize that you missed out on... And that drive to get it next time is exciting. To dislike someone because they won something you didn't is childish.
And then there's the "you showed up" trophy.
"God, his life must be so sad that he wants first place in that race."
"God, his life must be so sad that he wants to beat that other guy at chess."
"God, his life must be so sad that he sits around for hours at a time watching other people play a game and hoping his team wins."
If you're not competitive, that's great. More power to you for however you choose to live/play. But for some it's fun, and winning means something. Getting that first place trophy means a lot more than getting a "hey, you showed up" trophy.
Some people enjoy competition and winning because it's exciting, not because they're attempting to compensate for some figurative failed life as you suggest.