Yeah, the server vs server stuff is annoying. I happily played on a dead server and then got connected to 3 more realms. The first one I got connected to was a higher populated server, and they are the most annoying and rude, but I've met some cool people too. Then two more dead servers and the same thing is being said towards them, but at the same time the other two dead servers are rude to each other's server and mine.