Before I start excuse me for any grammatical errors or bad using of words, English is not my first language. Thank you.
Hi everybody.
Over the last few years I noticed the behaviour of people is getting worse. I am not talking about "big stuff" as corruption in politics, what I mean is those little gestures of kindness in everyday life. Everybody seems to be grumpy and selfish... It really troubles me, I feel like the world is much more hostile now. Because when I try to exhibit good behaviour or kindness, it is me who loses in the end. And I don't consider it a generation matter, because older people are acting the same as anybody else now.
Here is a example, story that my friend told me. He was traveling by bus to a different town (A two hour ride), bus was full. Then a older woman walked in, so he let her sit in his former seat (He was the only one who let her sit). After forty minutes she leaves and he sit back while another older woman entered the bus. She sees him to sit on "free seat" and she start to scream on him about good behaviour. He tries to politely explain to her his situation. As if it wasn't enough, ALL other old people in bus start to shout at him. Nobody tries defend him nor let the angry woman sit. So he had to stand for over a hour and a half in the bus.
Another example. I was going to a shop, I see a man leaving. His bag suddenly breaks and all his "stuff" falls on ground. I immediately try to help him to pick it up, yet he start to yell at me to not touch his things. I try to explain to him that I just wanted to help. He ignores my explanation, give me a strange look and leaves. No "thank you" or "sorry"... Don't get me wrong, I don't do it for a praise. I genuinely wanted to help, but it pains me when it is misunderstood.
Also everybody nervously want to get ahead of you in a row while shopping and so on... It is hard to describe, I hope you got the idea.
Here are some questions I would like to ask:
What do you think may be the cause of it?
Why does it persist?
Are you afraid to show kindness as you fear it will be perceived as "weird" or simply misunderstood?