Originally Posted by
CandyCotton Marshmallows
Take WoW for example. How many times have you seen 'I'm forced to switch specs because X' ... whether it be gimmicky fight, a specific talent, or whatever. Remember mages bitching about 'having' to switch to arcane? How about when they 'had' to be fire? Or locks 'needed' to be affliction or demo. What about the days in Vanilla or BC when ONLY one spec was brought -at all-. If you didn't roll that spec because you didn't like it, you weren't raiding.
So, we have classes and jobs in FFXIV. If you were part of a 'friends and family' type guild (doesn't need to be actual friends and family, just the mentality is about fun and working together, not necessarily cutting edge progression; working around the systems to do what they want) ... I'm sure you could form groups with them and be whatever class you want, as long as you set up the entire group to account for the things needed for the fight (aka BLM LB for nails) ... then you could bring your ACN and be happy ... but it is both -you- and the people you are with. By choosing to be ACN, you will not do the same damage as SMN, nor should you;
but if I was your raid leader, and content was on farm or reasonably easy enough; I'd let you fool around as much as you wanted with the class. Not that many people have this problem because most are focused on specific role maximization; so doubtful all 8/16 people would ask to go this route. Hell, even on progression, if it wasn't causing some sort of soft/hard enrage, have fun at it. Outside of world first levels (MMOs in general), 90% of the wipes people experience is mechanics failures ... deltas in differences between specs/jobs-classes/etc are rarely the main contributor. Execution of the spec's priority, learning the fight, mistakes, class/spec optimizations, teamwork/communication, lucidity, dc/lag, etc have all been far greater causes of wipes than simple 'frost does 5-10% less dps, go arcane noob' bullshit* (*not bullshit if competing for world/server firsts).
So, find some people that are more laid back and easy going, form groups with them and experiment to do what you find fun. Don't pull out a tanking pet before a fight though ... that is just being intentionally ridiculous and detrimental ... unless it is to save a wipe during a fight if possible if a tank goes down and you need time for a brez (like summoning a void lord to tank while you wait for tank to accept brez/ss type situation ... never played a SMN much, don't know how viable that tanking pet is).
I do understand you are trying to make a point; but don't go overboard with it. Jobs are meant to excel at a role; classes are hybrids and sacrifice ultimate role performance for it; which doesn't mean you can't play it. Should you? That is up to you and your teammates.