Originally Posted by
Angelicat
The "muscle memory" involved to properly do a dotweave isn't hard per-say but it's definitely not something a new or returning casual spriest can pick up easily especially once you start adding mechanics and movement on fights.
It depends on how seriously your wife wants to take her spriest, and the guild she's in obviously. If you guys really are just raiding casually which is what I get from your post and there's no real demand on her to be the best she can be, then she can go the CoPLite route of just throwing dots up and mindflaying, which is better on multi-target fights since dotweaving on multi-target is pretty complicated, or the regular cop route where you spam mindspike, DP, and insanity, which is better on single target compared to CoPLite.
DoTweave is not a huge gain over regular CoP or even CoPLite. Despite people constantly mentioning how CoPLite is dead or how you need to DoTweave to be competitive, this is simply not true. Dotweave gives you a mindspike and a half every 5 orb rotation. Looking at my heroic butcher kill this week, I gain about 5%~ damage from dotweaving compared to regular CoP. While a decent gain for someone who cares about maximizing damage, it's not a make or break in the grand scheme of things. Proper shadow play along with just making sure you are always casting as much as you can, especially <20% will give you far more damage than learning how to properly dotweave.
If you want her to learn something, teach her the ABCs of DPSing more-so than anything else. Dotweave is advance play for min-maxers who want to take their game to the next level, not something that a new spriest needs to do to be competitive, especially not in a casual environment.