I coach a competitive youth basketball team here in Canada, grade 7 & 8 boys.
There may be one kid trying out who lately has been going down the wrong path.
He is going into grade 8, and last year quit the team half way through (for a variety of reasons). I've had a parent who knows of him say it would be a bad idea to take him on my team.
So far, he's gotten into drugs (buying and selling), has been in trouble with the police and ran away from home for a week. He skips school, has been suspended multiple times and even expelled.
I've already coached the boy for 2 years (grades 5 & 6) and I think he's a good kid but is misguided due to family problems.
Come October when I go to pick my team, I pick the kids who will make the best team possible, but also keep in mind attitudes as to not cause any problems with the group. If I were picking solely on skill, he would make my team.
I am quite strict when it comes to my teams and he knows that. Not only do I expect the most of my players when it comes to practices/games, I expect them to be respectful of each other, other players from different teams and to be successful outside of sports (family, school, life in general). I wouldn't put up with much from him; I can deal with an attitude however any trouble with drugs/school would be an automatic removal from my team.
My understanding is he wants to play for me (he didn't play for me last year, played for another coach) which is a good sign. My thoughts are I would be doing him a huge disservice in life by saying no to him simply because of some bad decisions he's made. On the other hand, I can see how parents wouldn't want their kids around him.
Thoughts?