I'm presuming you're pulling that number from a source like this;
http://www.livescience.com/46547-alc...re-deaths.html
That 88,000 deaths per year includes;
1> Dangerous behaviour while drinking (like drinking and driving), and
2> Long-term damage, such as alcohol dependency, cirrhosis of the liver, and so forth.
Neither apply to getting blackout
drunk one time under safe circumstances. They both involve other contexts where those other contexts are the issue.
Vehicular deaths in the USA are over 30,000 per annum. That's also "extremely high", by your measure, but nobody's saying that driving is dangerous and nobody should do it.
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I really don't see what me being a teacher has to do with anything. I'm not encouraging underage drinking.