That's pretty grim lol.There have been two times when I've liked a chick, like really liked her and she was in a long relationship (that helps get to really know them, cuz you aren't trying to get with them) and then they get out of those relationships and give them some time and space to have their rebound... and then boom, they end up marrying and having kids with that rebound. Now, I just don't believe in it. You have to align yourself as the #1 rated contestant on her dating board, in the event something happens.. and then hit it like a caveman while being nice about it.