I've really been trying to work on improving myself the past few months -- and I'm sure one or two people here may remember me from last year, when I was in really rough shape (physically too, but mostly mentally). I feel like I've been making strides towards being a more positive person, and certainly been focusing more on taking care of myself, but... Well, frankly, I still find myself unable to score a date.
I dunno, it's kinda been weighing on me the past few days, and tonight in particular it's kinda gotten to me (cliche, I know). I seem to be great with people, when it comes to casually interacting with everyone. For whatever reason, people generally *seem* to like me, I've been told that people seem to warm up to me really quickly. Hell, the other day, some guy I was waiting in-line with at the supermarket was even saying I need to get a real estate license and come work for him, purely because I was really sociable. Yet, I cannot for the life of me seem to go from "getting along with someone" to "agreeing to go out on a date".
I've tried asking women out on "non-dates", like coffee or to the park. I've tried asking on *actual* dates, and even directly saying "I'd really like to take you out sometime". Nothing seems to work. My friends have tried assuring me that I'm not doing anything wrong, but clearly I am. I've not even been putting much pressure on it; at least, not until a few nights ago, when I started mulling things over again.
As I said, clearly I'm doing *something* wrong. But really, how do you know what it is? I mean, it's not like when a girl rejects you, you can just ask "Well, why not?".
I guess it's just got me thinking, if I'm 27 and can't even score a date, how on earth am I ever going to find someone to form a stable relationship with?