Attractive new coworker

[Cthulhu 2020]

We all know the trick question when a GF/wife asks if you think another female is attractive.

Most guys being dumb will say "no" when they really mean yes.

The correct answer is "Oh yeah, she's smoking, but she isn't nearly as fire hot as you!"

[Schattenlied]

That was my first thought but then I thought what if gf comes by the office to drop something off, usually an excuse to inspect where I work, and notices a very attractive coworker, the likely question is: why didn't you tell me about Stacey?

So, she is jealous that another attractive woman simply exists in your place of business? Get a new girlfriend, she has trust issues... The only reasonable answer to her question should be "Why should I have?" (Read: Not "Why, should I have?", the lack of a comma is important)... If she answers with anything akin to irrational jealousy or distrust, you have a problem and should tell her such.

[Archonite]

I would just treat it like a new coworker, and leave the attractiveness out of the conversation. I dont think its wrong for your GF to be insecure or jealous, as long as she recognizes that its her personal problem. You should try to understand and support her, but the solution lies with your GF changing her behavior and thoughts, not with you hiding stuff from her. By hiding things from her you only prove that her feelings are correct and she was right to worry. Dont give her a reason to worry or distrust you, but if she looks for a reason when there is none, you might need to re-evaluate your relationship

[Deleted]

No. Why and how would that subject pop up in a conversation?

Oh, hey, honey, I just got this really attractive coworker today and man, she's hot.

[Adam Jensen]

The new attractive girl at work IS my girlfriend.

[xChurch]

Don't stick your dick in crazy. If she cares about how the women at your job look, I've got some bad news....

[slime]

No. Why and how would that subject pop up in a conversation?

Oh, hey, honey, I just got this really attractive coworker today and man, she's hot.

And not to infer here, but bitch you better stay hot too or I'm going for the new sweet hotness. It's good to keep the cumdumpsters worried. Don't want them getting comfy.

[Noradin]

Do you tell your gf about the attractive new coworker at work?

Why not? In fact, I would make sure to tell them about new coworkers, attractive or otherwise.
Coworkersare off-limit anyway (not legally off-limit, but not worth the drama for everyone).

[anakin57]

Well yeah can't have a surprise threesome. Easier if the GF knows.

lol! yeah, the surprise 3some probably is 99.99% ineffective, but that moment when it works? lol

[Rooflesstoofless]

My wife is a closet bi and will point out hot looking chicks to me when we are out and about so I have no issue telling her about a hot coworker or MILF's that have kids at the school as my kids.

[zealo]

Why would I?

In addition, trying to hit on people within the company is a god awful idea, and can get you in serious trouble if HR gets involved.

[Unclekreepy]

I do it just because she likes it..

my gf is weird and will ask me if I think a girls hot and how would I bang her


sometimes I get uncomfortable.

[Aeula]

Yeah and then I'd help her with her self confidence by pointing out ways in which she is inferior to the coworker so that she can fix those flaws and come out a better person.

[Deleted]

yes and she better steps up her game then!

[May90]

Naaaaah. I am more attractive anyways, and I don't need an extra competition!

[Donald Hellscream]

That was my first thought but then I thought what if gf comes by the office to drop something off, usually an excuse to inspect where I work, and notices a very attractive coworker, the likely question is: why didn't you tell me about Stacey?

In that case I'd probably say because it isn't important, I mean why exactly is it important that your new co-worker is attractive? Unless of course your girlfriend is mad jealous or paranoid and thinks you may be boning the new chick

[Belize]

Never date a coworker.

[ItachiZaku]

That was my first thought but then I thought what if gf comes by the office to drop something off, usually an excuse to inspect where I work, and notices a very attractive coworker, the likely question is: why didn't you tell me about Stacey?

Would you also have to tell her about Steve?