i wouldnt doubt it, im afraid i fit the meme that americans are geographically challenged. 'Murica. shamefully representing lmao
ehhh i run into them every now and then but its not that bad. unfortunately they are always on the other team and im the one getting called smurf. i see a pair of them every now and then and its frustrating because the guy is only a little bit better than me so i always lose because they rip my team apart before i can even finish killing their supports
people hate cocky players that brag and think they are the best thing to happen to gaming since twitch and youtube and you might find it insufferable but its a good mindset to have because if you have it in your mind that you are better than everyone else, it will challenge you to better control your circumstances
like maybe an enemy player is really good mechanically but they are not a good ranked player so you can easily bait them into duels. try to see adversity as a challenge, dont give up just because someone is a smurf. use your game knowledge to exploit the weaknesses in their behavior and tendencies. i cant tell you how many times people will spawn camp my team and sit too close together and i switch to reinhardt just to beat them all down and we wipe them and take point
most smurfs are not that much better than the rank they are smurfing in. they want easier games but they dont want to feel like they are playing against npcs. sometimes they are not even smurfs, just people who mega tilted and threw games to drop ranks because they were tired of the consistent pressure at their rank as a result of inconsistent teammates
well man in the more learned community of competitive widowmaker is what you'd call a specialist type hero. it will make your team a lot more confident if you play heroes that can adapt to change easily bc if you cant handle a winston and someone gets mad enough that you keep picking them or their teammates all they have to do is play winston and boom you are counter picked. But lets say for example you're on nepal shrine and you pick widow. i mean, yeah, widow can work there. i don't like it, but its not the worst map you could choose to play her on. but someone else picks torbjorn and reaper.
this literally makes you look like hitler unless you are godlike because torb is either throwing or just a dumbass. i mean, there's the 0.000001% chance they aren't but in every single scenario it makes you the weakest link because no one is expecting you to be good and all of these heroes are very dependent, but even if torb and reaper arent amazing their ults and kits have a lot of value without even considering their static damage capability. this places a lot of pressure on you to be very good.
in short, at low ranks multi-purpose heroes are better because they are much more independent and low maintenance and also pair well with many heroes - these are heroes like Junkrat, McCree, Pharah, Soldier 76 and Tracer. Personally, these are the hero picks I am always the most happy to see:
Damage: Soldier 76 (esp if enemy Pharah), Pharah, Torbjorn (on Defense), Symmetra (on Defense), Reaper (Control), Bastion, Junkrat (if player isnt one trick), McCree (if enemy Mercy)
Support: Mercy, Zenyatta (most versatile & powerful healers, plus they actually heal)
Tank: Reinhardt, Orissa (esp if Torb), Zarya, Reinhardt + Orissa (Attack/Defense, esp if Bastion and/or Torb), Reinhardt + Zarya, DVA (Attack)
Heroes I am most unhappy to see picked:
Damage: Doomfist, Hanzo, Sombra, Tracer*, Genji*, McCree* (<-- all left very punishing and super low dmg if played badly), Mei, (so many bad walls) Torbjorn (if little/no attack support, esp hate on control),
Support: Moira, Ana, Lucio (dont let dps do their job, critically mismanage resources frequently)
Tank: Solo Roadhog, Solo DVA, Solo Winston, Roadhog + DVA, but just Winston in general because he's usually played by an overly aggressive solo diving retard. I used to like seeing him a lot because he's an amazing hero with a deceptively high skill ceiling, but what can you do?
* = in addition to description, takes away my hero swap options
It's not a perfect guide, but I'm sure the overall community impression of these heroes isn't too different. I mean, I try to work with a Widowmaker player if the comp looks solid and allows for a reasonable amount of babysitting because she can be very powerful even in the hands of an inconsistent player but you can't afford to spread yourself too thin with random people you don't know, so it's always going to make people feel uncomfortable when you ask them to trust you. It sucks you like Widowmaker a lot and the only environment you want to play her in is competitive because people there are actually trying to win, but competitive is unfortunately about adapting to your circumstances and trying to come out on top.
If you're doing well, I'd just ignore them. That's what I do when people bother me about my pick to the point they are demanding I swap but I also strive for excellence and I know when I'm not meeting my expectations and that something needs to change.