Use sharingan.
We are quite the non-traditionalists. She knew from day one that the roles were reversed in such aspects. There is no bowing down to what she wants just because that would make my life easier. We talk, we compromise, and we find a middle ground. It's worked well for nearly 10 years now.
RIP Genn Greymane, Permabanned on 8.22.18
Your name will carry on through generations, and will never be forgotten.