My wife works full-time at home taking care of baby. Although I would support her if she decided to pursue a career, I believe she is far more valuable to our family in her current role. I would trade places with her in a heartbeat, but unfortunately I simply had the luck to choose a career with far greater earning potential. This also means I can provide for my family’s future needs without requiring a second income producing parent.
Now all that being said, you can’t forget or understate the boredom of being a homemaker once the kids start going to school. Even before then it’s easy for a stay-at-home parent to feel like they are not contributing as much to the family. That’s why it’s critical to the stay-at-home parent’s happiness and mental well-being for their partner to routinely acknowledge and be thankful for all the work they do at home. Otherwise, being a homemaker turns into a thankless, unpaid, endless grind.