High Maintanence and Clingy or Low Maintenence and Distant?

[Stop Pretending]

With that attitude you`re never gonna get a lasting and meaningful relationship. Shape up buddy. Time is running out.

Says the single guy.

[Amerrol]

Surprised the first option has people voting for it. Those traits are both negative, while the other option only has one negative (distant).

[Blamblam41]

As someone who has dealt with extremely clingy girlfriends in the past and myself becoming extremely clingy to my current girlfriend, I can definitely say the healthiest relationship is distant, low maintenance and caring.

The last part is important. Your lover has a life, too. I have no idea why some people are so selfish they must make someones apart of ones every waking moment.

[belfpala]

False options. The only true option is, "Present when I need her, as I am for her, but we have our own lives."

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Surprised the first option has people voting for it. Those traits are both negative, while the other option only has one negative (distant).

Yes. First option is imminent explosion, second option is slow decay.

[Amerrol]

Yes. First option is imminent explosion, second option is slow decay.

At least you won't go broke with the second one, but yeah, both far from ideal.

[belfpala]

At least you won't go broke with the second one, but yeah, both far from ideal.

lol. Been there, done it, not worth it.