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  1. #161
    Quote Originally Posted by Sluvs View Post
    Wow wow wow, calm down with that broad brush of yours. If I hate someone, sure, I might not be nice to them, but I will, at least, be civil about it. I do not believe that just because you were wronged it allows you to be an asshole to the person that wronged you. And there is a HUUUUUUUGE gray area between being an asshole and being nice.
    And eye for and eye a tooth for a tooth.
    He who knows only his own side of the case, knows little of that. His reasons may be good, and no one may have been able to refute them. But if he is equally unable to refute the reasons on the opposite side; if he does not so much as know what they are, he has no ground for preferring either opinion. - John Stuart Mill (on liberty 1895)

  2. #162
    Quote Originally Posted by Laozi View Post
    And eye for and eye a tooth for a tooth.
    And soon enough, the whole world will be blind.

    I literally never thought I would write this in a message board.

    I mean, I'm not saying you should be a doormat, or even nice. Just don't be an asshole. I think that usually is good advice. But hey, that's me.

    You do you.
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  3. #163
    Quote Originally Posted by Sluvs View Post
    And soon enough, the whole world will be blind.

    I literally never thought I would write this in a message board.

    I mean, I'm not saying you should be a doormat, or even nice. Just don't be an asshole. I think that usually is good advice. But hey, that's me.

    You do you.
    Blind Because every ones an asshole
    He who knows only his own side of the case, knows little of that. His reasons may be good, and no one may have been able to refute them. But if he is equally unable to refute the reasons on the opposite side; if he does not so much as know what they are, he has no ground for preferring either opinion. - John Stuart Mill (on liberty 1895)

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    If i am confident i am not going to fall in love with her again, i'll just fuck her and vanish.

    I already did it twice with ex girlfriends, and its amazing. Yep, a little bit vengeance in those cases cleans your soul.

  5. #165
    Quote Originally Posted by Laozi View Post
    Blind Because every ones an asshole
    Jesus, man. Are you okay? That is a pretty negative way to look at thing, then again I suppose you can say that I am way too positive.
    I don't want solutions. I want to be mad. - PoorlyDrawnlines

  6. #166
    Quote Originally Posted by Sluvs View Post
    Jesus, man. Are you okay? That is a pretty negative way to look at thing, then again I suppose you can say that I am way too positive.
    You will see in time.
    He who knows only his own side of the case, knows little of that. His reasons may be good, and no one may have been able to refute them. But if he is equally unable to refute the reasons on the opposite side; if he does not so much as know what they are, he has no ground for preferring either opinion. - John Stuart Mill (on liberty 1895)

  7. #167
    Either way, I'd still talk to her, especially if she's having troubles with some serious life issue... going from serious girlfriend material to separated doesn't mean that you don't care about a person on a basic level anymore. If she cheated on me, and it was a conversation about getting back together, I'd probably shut down that conversation. Been happily married for almost 15 years, and I'm especially happy to be removed from such constant girlfriend and dating dramas.

  8. #168
    Honestly no matter what ends a relationship after its over I block them on everything and never think or talk to them ever again. So I would slam the door in her face and call the cops if she didn't get off my property. Life's too short to look back at the past. Always need to keep moving forward. I know what I'm worth and my self-respect is worth more than some girl. There's almost 4 billion out there after all, I'm sure I could find one more of them that would like me.

  9. #169
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    Ditch that hoe.
    We must reject the idea that every time a law's broken, society is guilty rather than the lawbreaker. It is time to restore the American precept that each individual is accountable for his actions.
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  10. #170
    Quote Originally Posted by Sluvs View Post
    Oh, i see. So literally everyone that cheated, even if it was just once, will never be able to be faithful to someone else? What? That is pretty insane, but okay i suppose.

    The self worth point i can actually understand, but if your confidence or your sense of self worth linked to someone else... I don't think that's good. I mean, i get it, you would be feeling bad because you are selling yourself short. But what I'm trying to say here is the following: Your sense of self worth should depend on anyone but yourself. Sure, if you feel bad about coming back to her then you absolutely should not do it. But if you got over it and want to try again, I do not think that is bad at all. This just looks like you have a wounded pride.

    The third point only works if the person is a sociopath. People are complicated ball of feelings, and feelings rarely operate on logic. If the person is an asshole, yeah , they might think that, but i like to think that most people are not assholes.

    Well, you absolutely should not make them a priority. At all. But texting back or having lunch with them once is not really giving them priority. If you are giving her priority, then you should go out or talk to them.

    I am assuming that the person got over the cheater. If the person is not over the cheater, then its a completely different beast.
    Once a cheater, always a cheater. It will always be in the back of their mind. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but people don't change. If you think they do you're in for a rude awakening. They can pretend to change, but they can't fight the nature that lives inside of them forever.

  11. #171
    Trust is like a sheet a fine glass, more fragile than an eggshell, but worth more than gold. Break it, and it doesn't matter how it gets glued, taped...you'll always see the cracks first, thereby becoming worthless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Idyllsend View Post
    As the title suggests,

    imagine if your ex girlfriend came back after months and months of spending time in other relationships and she says "i came here to normally talk to you" or "i came with no bad intentions, i only want to know how life is going"

    What do you do?
    Take into account that she cheated on you, dumped you and refused to talk about it and then she wildly appears again.

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    Wait, we can't edit titles on this website? Woah.
    You give her the coldest of attitude/shoulder. Blunt as hell and tell them to go away for ever. Be colder than the icy winds of northrend. Let those winds consume your soul, and project it all unto her.

  13. #173
    Quote Originally Posted by Rassman View Post
    Once a cheater, always a cheater. It will always be in the back of their mind. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but people don't change. If you think they do you're in for a rude awakening. They can pretend to change, but they can't fight the nature that lives inside of them forever.
    Yeah. Sorry but i could not disagree more. I saw 3 people, extremely close to me, change. And I mean REAL changes. From water to wine kinda of way, and they never went back, not even once.

    I changed a lot, if my past self could see me know, he definitely would not recognize me.

    So, yeah, that's bullshit.
    I don't want solutions. I want to be mad. - PoorlyDrawnlines

  14. #174
    Quote Originally Posted by Sluvs View Post
    Yeah. Sorry but i could not disagree more. I saw 3 people, extremely close to me, change. And I mean REAL changes. From water to wine kinda of way, and they never went back, not even once.

    I changed a lot, if my past self could see me know, he definitely would not recognize me.

    So, yeah, that's bullshit.
    Agree to disagree I suppose. You can't prove that those people changed their ways. It could simply be a façade. I guarantee they didn't.

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