If you are only interested in proffering subjective preferences and not discussing them, why are we talking?
The objections I raised aren't based on preference - I gave specific reasons and explained the fallacy of the internal logic of the statement. That's not "I just think it's wrong"-levels of reasoning.
If your reply is nothing but "I disagree and I don't need to explain why" then that means you're not interested in a discussion. You have a subjective preference you're not interested in examining, to which I can only say "cool story, bro" and move on because you've effectively terminated the discourse.
If you want to actually CONVINCE anyone that your point has merit as an argument, you need to actually defend it. If that's not what interests you, just move on. Everyone has their preferences, and we can't really do anything other than acknowledge them because they're not up for debate.
You're misrepresenting things a bit there. I didn't just go "not a good reason!" - I explained WHY it's not a good reason. You also used a subjective criterion in this analogy - "stink" doesn't just denote the existence of a smell, it makes a value judgement (i.e. bad smell). You've smuggled in a subjective position that's guarded against objective reasoning, but that's NOT what happened in the original example - as evidenced by me giving you objective reasons why the internal logic of your statement was problematic.
That's more like you going "I hate cats" me going "okay why?" and you going "because they have five legs". I then point out that this is demonstrably false, but you go "well let's just agree to disagree, I hate cats and you don't, the end". You simply avoided having to talk about the problem with your REASON and tried to go back to the CLAIM, invoking subjective preference so as to not explain the objection to your justification.
And let's be clear: in that example, you are totally fine to keep hating cats, just like you are fine believing that "it's not like the book" is a good reason to exclude people based on skin color. That's your preference. It won't CONVINCE anyone, though, and people can look at it and go "that's a pretty racist position to have", but that doesn't mean you can't have that position. If you want to JUSTIFY that position, you need to engage with the arguments, and that means responding to objections. If you don't want to justify it, you can just move on and let people think what they think.
You can't have your cake and eat it, too - you can't have a preference you don't need to defend and ALSO expect it to convince people to respect your position. They respect that you HAVE a position, that doesn't mean they have to respect the position ITSELF.
If that's just your opinion as in subjective preference, then you don't need to prove it. I will just go "okay, I guess he thinks that" and move on. Discussion terminated. And if I then also think "I guess that's kinda racist, though" you don't get to object - you've already removed yourself from the debate by asserting this is a preference, not an argument, so you wouldn't have to defend it. You can't have it both ways (see above).
No, laws against discrimination are NOT enough. There's plenty of discrimination that goes on that's entirely legal, and it's STILL WRONG.
If you seriously think that discrimination is only wrong when it's actually illegal, that is a pretty fucked-up stance to have, not gonna lie.
Same thing. You don't need to defend your positions. But you don't get to not defend them and ALSO expect others to respect them. That's not how discourse works.
We all respect your right to have an opinion. That doesn't mean we have to respect that opinion.
Yes, that's kind of how it works. If I make an objection to your argument, and you have no way to overcome it, then... you were wrong. By, uh, definition of how arguments work? IDK why that's somehow funny to you.
But you realize, I hope, that adding the word "inherently" there changes the statement? And that saying "it's racism" is very different from "it has something to do with racism", which was WHAT I ACTUALLY SAID?
Why this compulsion to keep changing my statements? You're already quoting them. Can't you just respond to them as is without changing their meaning? It's fine if you paraphrase, but you can't CHANGE THE MEANING by adding qualifiers or making different claims.
And that's my point.
Just because something isn't deemed racial discrimination UNDER THE LAW doesn't mean there's no racial discrimination. Laws have very specific circumstances under which they do and don't apply, and those don't always cover the same areas that public discourse does. And no one here is arguing from a LEGAL standpoint anyway - because of precisely what I said in response, "it's not racism unless it's illegal" is not a good stance to take. Same with morality, by the way. Plenty of immoral things are also illegal; but plenty more are not. And you can't just go "it's not immoral unless it's illegal".
What paradox are you referring to, specifically?