Well yeah because you don't read all my messages, and frankly with the way discussions actually work here, people have more back-and-forth discussions over things to argue over than things to share interest about.
I enjoy the show, and I watch it week to week because I like it. I've even said before here that Elrond and the Dwarf arc is my favourite part of the series. I even updated my message above since I did feel my original response to you was overly defensive. At any rate, the reasons for my criticisms aren't an expression of hate, but an expression of disappointment that this show isn't as good as I think it should be. And it really should be riding on high standards considering the amount of time and money being put into the project.
It's just disappointing that Galadriel is such an unrelatable character. Nothing to the actress who I think is doing great with the material she's given. It's really down to the production value overall. The scripts, the narrative focus, the characterization, the pacing... Everything feels off. And it's very easy to nitpick when the rest of the show looks pretty darn good.
If this show was better put together, I'd be happy to sing its praises. Otherwise, my expression of things I think are wrong or don't work or don't like aren't really a matter of hating the show, but that I think it could be and should be better.
As for hand-waving things that don't fit, I don't see what the problem is with that. I didn't like the Star Wars sequels (mostly after Last Jedi) and I would just as much express my criticisms and comments about how it doesn't work for me. Other people can enjoy it as they please, but it wouldn't stop me from expressing and explaining my opinions if people simple say 'The movies make sense, I don't get what people are complaining about'. Well, a big part of why don't love the movies is because there are many things that I think just don't work, and don't fit what I want, and I wouldn't really be speaking on other people's behalf when I express my own opinion on the matter would I?