Because the story started with kings who when they died most of their kingdoms died, so we never have seen some big ceremony. Anduin became king with most of the Alliance leaders in Stormwind.
Yes he did an messager was sent to Arthas that Terenas recalled his soldiers. Arthas had no right to disobey the kings orders, burn his fleet and kill and ressurect and enslave his men.As the king didn't give him any orders and thats why he can't disobey them and yes they do as arthas had the right as a prince pratically dismantle the silver hand.
Right but Arthas became a usurper, so Calia was the only heir, and everybody expect a select few had known about her marriage.In monarchies if a nobel woman marries a peasant or a nobel woman they lose their right of succession and only if the previous monarch gives his/her the right can they succeeded them. Also as Lordaeron was dismantlet and reformed as a part of scourge and Calia never took part in the civil war.
They are classified as stormwind npc https://youtu.be/LrQvNuoBNbI?t=564 even the guards are classified as stormwin npcs https://youtu.be/LrQvNuoBNbI?t=584 everylast one of them is classified as stormwind npcs even when they have the stromgarde tabards..You have fought the undead, struck back against the Horde, and honored the memory of the victims of Southshore. On behalf of the kingdom of Stromgarde, I present you with an official commendation, and this reward
Its not "longterm foresight" its just basic logic.That just proves that he is still very human as humans doesn't have usualy longterm foresight for these kind of things.
Barely anybody mentions the gathering after, not the Horde or the Alliance, KT was at that time an ISOLATED ISLAND kingdom, and Zelling and his family were living in a camp, in a land overrun by cultists.As it happened few months before it would as easily spread as it was a major political event in azeroth so ofcourse it will easily spread as Calia was killed during it.
Its also really funny how you argued that Zelling family shouldnt have mistrusted the undead because they only heard they destroyed Lordareon and not seen, and as such they have no ecsxuse but in this case, Zellings family should have known everything about Arathi, and even if they werent there they should had embraced an undead person without second doubts. Double standards, once again.