Originally Posted by
Jastall
Bull fucking shit no support exists.
Incels and people who are isolated like them don't need tools on Twitter telling them they are awesome because they have a penis/vagina or some trashcan fat pride manifesto on Reddit or whatever. They need help, from people who know what to give them. That means therapy and a social circle. More importantly, they need to want help and most importantly, to want to help themselves.
I was isolated myself. Lost my virginity at 24. I got over being isolated because I decided that enough was enough and I sought help, saw several psychologists and from there figured out what the fuck I wanted and was wrong with me. And my problem was that I was a lazy asshole with no drive to do anything but eat, sleep, fap and play video games. It wasn't society's fault, it wasn't my life experiences, it wasn't because of my beliefs, it wasn't because I have a dick, it sure as fuck wasn't my parent's fault, it was MY fault and I had to fix it. And when I got that into my thick skull, help, actually useful and constructive help, started lining up. I'm hardly a paragon of the modern world now, but I can admit my faults without being consumed by them.
I'll never judge an individual incel. Everyone is fighting their own battles and all that. But as a movement it is worthless, there's next to no actual support or drive to improve as a "community" there, it's all a big pile of wallowing in their own self-pity, when they don't go for woman-hating at least which is depressingly often. Nobody is actually helped by this shit just like nobody is actually helped by Tumblerinas spewing their horsecrap about the patriarchy or whatever. The first person that can fix your personal problems, is you. If you don't want to improve yourself, the entire world lining up in front of you to offer you everything won't help. If anything it might make you even worse. If the incel community can drill the idea of personal responsibility into the skulls of their "members", that would be a massive improvement.
Everyone goes through tough shit. Letting it define you is a personal feeling. Help exists to get you out of it, but if you refuse help, it's your ass. And the last thing you'd ever need is a group of people telling you those responsible for your problems are everyone but you.