The most telling thing about the rural/urban divide in America is how utterly one-sided it is.
Rural America hates urban America. Urban USA is every bad thing, to rural USA. Rural USA wants to get all the attention and all the focus, and feels they deserve it, even though they're neither economically nor demographically significant enough to justify such a focus.
Urban America, on the other hand, generally just doesn't even think about rural America, like, at all. They've got bigger concerns going on. It pretty much only crops up for them during election cycles when talking heads bring up the divide again. There isn't even any bad blood or antagonism towards rural America; it literally just doesn't come up.
It's very much like the M. Bison line; "for you, it was the worst [policies] of your lives. For me, it was Tuesday." Rural America simply cannot grasp that they get the amount of focus and attention they deserve. Which is a fraction of what the rest of America gets, yes. Because rural America is that small a fraction of the total nation. People matter, people vote. Land doesn't vote. Stop making that mistake.