I don't find the Kyrians horrendous at all.
I know there's a very strong Eurocentric/Western bend on these forums, but a lot of other cultures believe enlightenment/nirvana/whatever comes with the eradication of the self and it's identity, needs, desires, and motives.
Bob Smith in the US thinks his immortal soul is exactly the same as his living body was, with the same personality, likes, dislike, etc. That's a pretty common misconception.
So at least on a religious or philosophical level, I don't see a problem with the Kyrians. I know people from more self-centered or materialist backgrounds will view them as "bad" though, so I'm not surprised.