
Originally Posted by
VMSmith
And yet you made that choice anyway.
I never said I think everyone is an asshole. I never said I see people as tools. You folk are projecting your own selves onto others when you do this.
I said I find that raiding with people makes me dislike them. That's because I don't like raiding and the way it causes people to behave. I can have wonderfully lovely interactions with a person while sitting around in guild chat and, once in a raid, not enjoy their company at all. I hate the sense of obligation to people I may not know very well that comes with raiding. It's raiding, not people. Do you get it? I don't find raiding enjoyable nor really sociable. At least, not anymore than the backslapping found in a study group when we get an "A".
In fact, funnily enough, I mentioned in my post some social situations where I absolutely loved being around other people. But neither of you could be bothered to consider that, it seems, in your rush to judge another person as flawed because they don't share your desires. And, in so doing, proved to me yet again why I don't like what raiding does to people. So, thanks for that!
The entire point of my post was not even about my opinions on the joy of raiding ... simply that I found it to be the least sociable activity in the game since it's hyper-focused on performance, not camaraderie.
eta Given that this game will likely be very similar to WoW and be raid-centric, anyway, I imagine I'll probably end up passing on it and stick with STO and, hopefully soon, Palia.