Originally Posted by
KOUNTERPARTS
Since we are sharing personal experiences, I thought I'd share one from this morning which I think is a true example of real toxicity.
Did a +5 Halls of Atonement helping carrying my friend's alternate character. All other players were pugged players including tank, healer, and 3rd damage dealer.
The healer had not done Halls of Atonement once. Not even on normal. They had absolutely no idea of what mechanics to watch out for in trash pulls or boss pulls. He admitted this after the 17th wipe before 2nd boss and after it was made clear through his lack of knowledge of the dungeon. Examples of this include:
- not knowing how to dispell/decurse debuffs off players... not sure if they even saw them, or knew there were things to dispel, but after 50 times of the group telling them to dispel you would think...
- not standing in giant red circle on 1st boss and getting Feared, which he ran into another group and pulled
- not being aware of packs behind fences or a long walls, and just kept moving too far out and face pulling multiple packs
- not knowing to kite the ghost into the pedestal on 3rd boss
- not knowing to avoid the statues on 4th boss
...and these are just some examples. This was the entire dungeon. I spent more time typing out and informing them of what they are doing wrong and how to avoid it. All I was met with back is, "well you all keep fucking dying and making me work harder" and "I know how to tell, you guys keep dying to dumb shit" and things like that. I didn't want him to leave out of anger, even after the other pugs were pointing out what he was doing wrong that was causing deaths (face pulling, not dispelling, etc.) and I finally said: "you can't out heal mistakes that are intended to kill the group. Fix the mistakes *you are* making" to which he just stated he put everybody on ignore.
When we finally killed the boss, even though I was apparently on ignore, I said, "it's not smart nor is it fair to go into a M+ dungeon knowing full and well you have never been here and end ruining it for everybody else" but I guess I wasn't on ignore? He responded and said "hey I did my best" ...and I guess that's a thing.
Doesn't change they knowingly went into a +5 without even doing a normal first, and could not adjust properly. Perhaps they didn't think it would be that bad? Perhaps they honestly though they would just "out heal" or they "out geared" the content? Who knows.
The fact that you willfully go into content and proceed to fail at things that make the group wipe/fail the content is toxic. It's almost on the level of purposely griefing others if you ask me. Refusing to acknowledge your own mistakes while immediately proceeding flaming other people like "stop dying to shit" when the death came from your personal mistakes is even more toxic. It shows not only you don't know what is happening, but you resort to blaming others before even considering your position. That attitude is peak toxicity.
I have a blacklist addon and he was swiftly added. Sucks he was a healer, as this whole thread seems to back-up healers. I have his name if any of you want it, I'll PM it to you.