Yeah but that's just it. I rarely wall pulled unless the healer told me I could and that happened like once every 20th dungeon. I only wore gear I got from the dungeons, no tomestone gear until I got to lvl70 where I had a set lying around.
I'm beginning to wonder if it could be a cultural thing. I'm playing on a EU server, perhaps it's more common on US ones or I'm simply incredibly fortunate.