And where did I say I expect them to accept and not fight back? Isn't it that you guys are so entrenched in your views, and so sure of your methods, that you treat any other opinion as attacks on the women / equality, meant to retain status quo?
I want them to fight, but not this way. Not accept handouts (yes, I treat every case of request to give a position to a woman specifically as a handout), not expect special care. Why were women marginalised? Not because some bad men hate them but because they are viewed as incapable and unreliable. Getting handouts only reinforces this view. No, they should be proving they can be succesful without special treatment. Yes, it is harder for them than for the men, but to me that's the only way.
I can understand a campaign for a specific woman, when her qualifications are objectively higher than some man, and asking difficulty questions to leadership why he was hired and not her. But asking for a woman first, and qualifications second is laughable to me.