Keep your weird Russian power fantasies to yourself, that's a non-starter in any peace treaty.
Ukraine being demilitarized and barred from signing a defense agreement with the West is simply holding the door open for Russia to waltz back in once they've regrouped.
Ukraine has already indicated as a no-go (as they should) and Russia is already backing down by saying that allowing Ukraine to join the EU is something they're willing to let slide.
And as I mentioned just a little over a week ago, the longer this drags on, the more bargaining chips Ukraine will have. And it's already looking like I've been proven right, considering the softer tone Russia is taking and how badly crippled their forces are getting.
Remember when Kyiv was falling after the first weekend? Good times, good times...