As long as China is around, push comes to shove, India will pick the US side.
India seizes $725 million China's Xiaomi over remittances
My enemy's enemy is my friend and all that rot.
The Philippine's military have close ties to the US. The US & Philippine's militaries have started working on shared military's bases.
Same with Indonesia. Jokowi would like to stay neutral. However, Indonesian military has very close ties to the US. Annual joint trainings with Hawaii and California National Guards, submarine base in Natuna, joint Maritime Training Center, etc.
I guarantee that if they have to choose that they will pick the US.
Ultimately, it comes down to economy. In terms of export/import, the US/EU alliance is worth 100 times that of Russia. That is true even for country like Vietnam.
The problem with self-sufficient fortress economy is that the country ended with no shared economic interests with other countries.