Originally Posted by Marjane Satrapi
No I didn't. They gave me shit for not talking about adoption systems. When I said I'm specifically talking about abortion.
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A man has a responsibility to care for the child yes, but he is not responsible for an unwanted pregnancy, which is what you're saying he is
There's no goal posts being changed, you just used a shitty analogy.
You not choosing to adopt because it's financially inconvenient is the same excuse you're accusing women who get abortions of; moreover, you are promoting a political position which you know will increase the number of kids who need adoption while already having decided you are going to do nothing to pick up the slack for a situation you have contributed to.
By your own arguments, you're taking the easy way out.
You've already insisted that having sex is tacit consent for pregnancy; it either goes both ways or you're just being a misogynist.
Originally Posted by Marjane Satrapi
It's an interesting point.
I wouldn't have a problem with pro-lifers taking it on themselves to offer women seeking an abortion the financial support and compensation necessary to carry to term on the basis that those pro-lifers then adopt the resulting child, basically a form of surrogacy. I could see such a system working for many.
Fascinating that it's never brought up by pro-lifers as an option, eh?
That is more so that the man doesn't care to know if he knocked someone up or not.
But, let's see how knowledgeable you are on abortion:
Where is abortion more common: in countries and states with strict abortions bans or in countries and states with low or no abortion bans?
What reduces the number of abortions the most: Pre-pubescents sex education (Note: this is kids about to go into puberty, but not quite there, not like 5 year olds), strong social safety nets, paid parental leave, or bans on abortions?
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Peace is a lie. There is only passion. Through passion I gain strength. Through strength I gain power.
Through power I gain victory. Through victory my chains are broken. The Force shall set me free.
–The Sith Code
Peace is a lie. There is only passion. Through passion I gain strength. Through strength I gain power.
Through power I gain victory. Through victory my chains are broken. The Force shall set me free.
–The Sith Code
Peace is a lie. There is only passion. Through passion I gain strength. Through strength I gain power.
Through power I gain victory. Through victory my chains are broken. The Force shall set me free.
–The Sith Code
You're right, we're -not- mindless animals. Procreation is -a- goal, but you don't speak for everyone (dare I say, you don't speak for most people) when you say that it's the ultimate goal of humanity to keep making more humans.
We've simply evolved past that. We're so biologically superior to everything else on this fuckin' planet that our species' only real risk of dying out are disasters of our own doing, so having kids can, and should, be a decision and not an imperative.
"Just not have sex!" You might say, with what I can imagine is a smug expression as you tip up your Walsh style thinking glasses. To that I say: Lmao. Sex rules, it feels good (in fact we're one of the only species where the act is pleasurable to both parties) and people just like to have it. Having sex with people you don't want to spent of your life with isn't some moral failing, people are just fuckin' bored and enjoy fuckin'. And we've developed so, SO many ways to make sex just work without having to risk most of its side effects (yes even pregnancy). Yet no contraceptive is fool proof and, at the same time, the puritan stigma around premarital sex has lead to a lot of younger folks without proper education or access to these contraceptive tools, in times in their lives where having a kid would be financially or physically devastating for them.
And, personally, I don't want kids. I don't even have the mental or emotional energy for a dog, I don't want to inflict my potentially shitty parenting on some impressionable young soul. And I know a lot of folks who feel the same way; folks who realize they're not emotionally capable of being parents, financially stable enough to raise a child to be happy or healthy, or - to be blunt - have a life all their own they're not done living to devote so much time and energy into fostering another life. You're asking, nay, demanding a woman simply drops their dreams and ambitions at the drop of a hat because you feel as if her biological imperative as a spawn point supercedes her humanity.
And this isn't even getting into the rules and laws the folks on your side of the debate want to enact to make things even worse for women who or who may not even want kids. Because while you, personally, have some understanding that rape and fetal unavailability are legitimate reasons to have an abortion: Almost no one else making these laws does. A point you've been hilariously mum about whenever someone brings it up, because it goes against this weird potential utopia you dream the world will become when abortion ceases.