My comments were from an medical ethics standard POV. Apologies for not being specific in that regard. I wasn't intending to make it political, far from it. I was intending to state that abortion at some level of gestation, with no other underlying complication involved, is unacceptable to even pro-choice people. Even if it's arbitrary, I don't think it harms our integrity by saying that a 40-week "abortion on demand" choice is wrong.
Hopefully that made sense. It's hard to untangle politics from abortion here in the states. I try my best to avoid the political aspect, but sometimes don't realize people I talk to are looking at the discussion from a political aspect. For defensive purposes, I'll restate my apprehension towards arbitrary abortion laws.
I don't think I disagree with you here. Probably just the tone of abortion conversations that we disagree on, especially when people are attempting to lower the tone. I'll also freely admit that I have the tendency to assume I'm not being trolled/played/baited into thinking I'm discussing this with rational actors. But until it becomes obvious or is admitted by the other party, my naivete tends to hold longer than it should.
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Experience has borne that out. I'll admit it's really fucking difficult to have conversations with most pro-life people. Many think any abortion is murder and wants it outlawed. Others think because I'm pro-choice that I want abortions to happen. So when someone who is pro-life gives me a reasonable solution that we can hash out/work towards, it would seem to be contrary to the purpose of discussion to dismiss it out of hand.
I'll bow out for now, as I don't have solutions that frequenters in this thread would find acceptable given our current societal/political climate. The things you discuss as potential solutions to avoid "problematic" abortions are already hotly debated topics in the US, even if you remove abortions from the equation.