Isn't it strange that you saying ARGPs are a fancy digital skinner box but do not call it a fancy digital slot machine? Terms matter as you seem to be aware of so the argument is not moot when discussing if something is a slot machine or not. The monetization of DI is not gambling heavy. You just explained that it is the nature of ARPG and the mechanics of DI that make it gambling heavy.
Every game exploits you in different ways. You spend $3k over years in PoE because they exploited you into buying cosmetics. Yet you don't persecute them the same way you are DI. The regular player experience of DI also has not suffered because of the monetization because as you said an ARPG is heavily gambling focused. You also again indicate it isn't about respect with your argument of "same money needs to be same value". It really comes down to you not being able to buy your way just like the other guy that got lucky. Your arguments are all over the place and again come across as a person just looking to hate on DI with out any clear argument.