You don't represent a large enough customer base or market force for any company to consider doing otherwise. There is too much money to be had by aggressively monetizing games and they do it successfully for the most part. This will never be reversed. Games only need a few thousand or so people buying items in-game to stay in the marketplace for decades. With a global audience that is trival.
I agree, don't support the products or developers that offend your sensibilities. Though one is only doing so on their personal grounds- that is fine. I just recommended players to do so in the post you're quote replying.A developer/publisher/whoever stating outright multiple times over that the game would not be pay to win, then making it absolutely pay to win, is wrong and inexcuseable, and should be called out loudly and repeatedly until it incurs a cost. It is flatly wrong.
A lot of this stuff developers & publishers say is subjective, marketing, and/or speculative because the product is in development. They have the artistic and legal right to change their minds too.It should be illegal.
There is unlikely to be any government or legal force willing to define "buying power" or "pay-2-win" for AA games. Especially in the US; if it doesn't happen in the US it doesn't matter in the entertainment sphere at all.
I am okay with reality. Marketing is marketing. No developer or publisher is going to tell you what you don't want to hear in building up their product presence.If game developers can say literally whatever they want, lie overtly, and incur no cost at all, the industry is simply fucked. Expecting them to stick to their word is a very small bar to set. If you are actually ok with this practice you can fuck right off.
If you took developers at their word and those developers failed to live up to those promises simply don't support the product. Games are recreational hobbies and entertainment- you don't have an inherent right to these things. You are choosing or can choose to engage with them as your means allow.
If all games are not to your liking and the "industry is fucked"- go outside. Take up another hobby or pasttime. The world is wide.