
Originally Posted by
Super Dickmann
No state or people with any bit of self-preservation or dignity to speak of would genuinely care that they only lost a third (including their core regions and one of their greatest temples) to a bunch of invaders, rather than the rest of it, compared to a scenario where they lose none of it and all these invaders die in a blizzard and/or get eaten on a sacrificial altar. The same point applies about how they didn't lose their land to just the elves, but also to the humans, which were only able to do so due to training and involvement by the elves, might I add and then split the land between them, given that there's ranger lodges as far off as the Hinterlands. The arrival of any elves at all, much like any humans, is a net negative for the Amani Empire and their aim being to remove all these people and reassert power is completely rational. In turn, any alliance with these people because of the void is ridiculous for the same reason, because they've lost monumentally more to them than they did to any space alien and they won their last war with the aqir.
As for why to direct their anger at the elves, that ties into point c) i.e applying the retarded colonial analogy would require humans to also give up their land, pay reparations or give Amani sinecures and Critical Troll Studies, which they obviously won't both because Blizzard wouldn't do this to humans, but also because unlike Zul'aman and outside Jintha'alor and outskirts, the Amani presence south of the Thalassian Pass consists of the dead and some meme tribes. They direct their anger at the elves because when they show up it's next to elves and because they're the main non-Scourge elf antagonist, in reality, Zul'jin's "I hate you, I hate you all." would make for a better motto. When they could get to humans, as they did in the Second War, they did.
That said, your post captures the reasoning why elves accepting any peace is also absolutely absurd, as from their perspective they did not initiate any of these conflicts, their enemy has been completely aggressive at all times and launched every war, and they very pointedly were an isolationist state. The Amani kicked them twice over when they were down, in the Second War and after the Scourge and as noted above, they've zero common interests. No elf has any incentive to compromise or reason to believe such a compromise would hold. The conflict is zero-sum, the very premise of reconciliation is inherently retarded and nonsensical.