So my main spec is feral DPS but I have a decent tank off set that I use daily for the random heroic. Eleven minute queues for a dungeon is ridiculous, so I prefer to go the instant route. That being said, I don't really mind tanking. Some people complain that it's boring and not worth it, but generally speaking, tanking is an easy way for me to get Emblems and gold.
Today, the fun was completely knocked out of my sails. While trying to help my brother get Emblems of Triumph for his freshly-80 mage, I offered to party up and queue as a tank so it would be as close to instant as it gets.
Group one. Fail healer shaman fails to move out of the Shadow Sickle(?) ability on the first trash mobs in OK. He dies. I pop Frenzied Regen + Barkskin + Survival Instincts to AoE the mobs. I live. Healer blames me for not having threat on the mobs. Really? The mobs were all attacking me; it was your failure to move out of the damage that caused you to die. Do NOT blame me for your inadequacies as a healer. Not wanting to continue to hear his pathetic excuses and finger-pointing, I drop group. Enjoy the 5-10 minutes finding a tank while you sit and wait and think about how terrible you are.
Group two. After waiting patiently for my Deserter debuff to run out, a new dungeon pops. Yay, it's Utgarde Pinnacle! Presumably it will be a cake-walk. Oh no. As a note, I start all my pulls with a handy Faerie Fire-Skull macro. It simultaneously marks the target with a skull and casts Faerie Fire. Yay, marked kill targets. The very first pull I mark one of the two mobs. My normal AoE threat rotation is Mangle the Skull, Swipe Swipe Swipe, Demo Roar, etc. Apparently, the rogue in the group is either retarded or blind because he starts attacking the unmarked target. There are only two targets to choose from: one that's marked with a huge skull on its head and one that isn't. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why one is marked and one isn't. But I digress!
We make it to Skadi, rather slowly I might add. The adds are coming out and I'm picking them up. I have my back turned to where Skadi would normally land because I'm trying to pick up the two guys coming out of the little hallway area. Skadi lands. Healer is standing RIGHT where he lands, so he proximity aggro pulls. He dies. Is it my fault that you're standing RIGHT where he lands? Is it really my fault that the DPS sucked and timing the harpoons so that we had two adds when Skadi landed? Is it?
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Anyway, if you're a healer healing 5 mans -- regardless of how crappy or awesome your gear is -- don't be a dummy and stand in stupid stuff that will kill you. If you're a DPS and the tank is kind enough to mark kill targets, please follow them. And if you die to something completely retarded, do not blame the tank. People cry constantly about how long the DPS queues are... if I group up with idiots, it's just going to be longer.