Its actually a great point there that before you should start loving someone else, you need to be secure off yourself.
I dont have, or have had a GF, there may be many reasons for that.
First of all, I have terrible experience with the girls arround me.
They look pretty etc, but there is so hard enjoying moments when Im close to them, they want to make drama out off everything, cant think properly, or even forget to think before they talk, it anoys the shit out off me.
On the internett, its so different though, the girls I meet there, I dont see them, but most off them I really love hanging around, not because they are girls, mainly because how they are when I talk with them online.
I dont know if its random or if the women gaming wow is just far more attractive to me.
It may also be the women I meet is more mature, because I dont meet to many around my own age, but quite much older than me.
(Do not missunderstand me, I do not say women are bad, I have had bad experience, and I am not currently attracted to anyone, own sex or opposite, never really been, but I atleast really enjoy hanging out with people thats over my age cuz I find people at my own age far to immature lol)