I've been in this guild for about 5-6 months now, and there's a recurring problem that won't go away: They seem to always do everything in the hardest possible way and won't listen when I try to show them a better and easier way to kill bosses.
At first when I joined I was a little more experienced in the current content so I gave advice, explained tactics and they were happy to follow that. They even made me an officer right away, but as we've moved into SoO the strategies they've been implementing are often badly flawed and executed pooly. People ignore some tactics and otherwise make the fights harder just to pad the dps meters. We stack in stupid positions, waste cooldown uptime, waste time on unnecessary movement and generally never take advantage of anything that would help us.
Generally, the raid leader either doesn't understand alot of the tactics, or just insists that we follow some useless plan that makes it harder. It's not that the players are bad, they just do things in this stupid way,
Some examples of the kind of thing they do
all the time:
- Killing Klaxxi Paragons in the hardest possible combination (Hisek left alive so long he starts 1-shotting people for example).
- Nobody picks up buffs from Klaxxi bosses.
- Having half the DPS spam AOE on Garrosh P1 adds that would just die to Iron Stars (total waste of dps).
- Pushing Garrosh phase transitions when there are loads of adds up and Ignoring Desecrated Weapons.
- Nuking P2/P3 adds on top of eachother - and tank AOE'ng and healing himself as they spawn so all the adds agro and stack on him.
- Nuking heroic Dark Shaman at the pull so they put Iron Totems down while the wolves are still alive (tombs everywhere, extra prisons).
- Pushing Thok into green/poison phase when his HP was low enough to go straight to red/fire and kill it (unnecessary dots, takes longer to kill, extra chase phase).
- Having the raid focus on extra adds when Nazgrim is under 10% HP (ends up like 3 more waves when we could just kill the boss instead).
- Generally ignoring anything that would make our lives easier and just doing the opposite instead.
I've always been vocal in trying to explain how to make things easier (never shouted or been condescending, just saying
"hey we should do x for y reason") and while they used to listen, now I can tell they've gotten pissed off and started ignoring me (literally acting like I never said anything).... so now we're in the position where they are just making every boss harder for no reason.
We've (somehow) managed to kill 6/14 heroic bosses now, and I think this is the source of them ignoring me, believing they don't need my advice, but these were nearly all harsh and messy kills that barely made it, some we only killed once. Most weeks we end up abandoning some heroics and spend 2 hours+ wiping on normal Garrosh...
I don't really want to leave the guild (seems rude),
how can I make them listen without sounding like an arrogant prick? Or am I just expecting too much? I spent most of my time in Wow raiding under the leadership of a highly skilled and knowledgable leader, so I've never had any issues like this before.