That's called rhetoric not evidence.
As far as your rhetoric, the "MAH GUNS!" says the other side doesn't care if children die and women get raped, because they want to remove the ability of single mothers (who so choose) to defend themselves with a semi-automatic weapon.
You have between 10,000 to 20,000 murdered by firearms each year, however you have an estimated 500,000 to 3,000,000 who defend themselves from violence or death each year with firearms.
Source:
2010 CDC study commissioned by President Obama
https://www.nap.edu/catalog/18319/pr...lated-violence
Anyway, the problem to fixing this almost always boils down to both sides saying "you want more murdered children!!!", then because both sides are wrong, nothing changes, because you are focusing on rhetoric instead of truth. Neither side wants to see any child die, they both just disagree with the best solution. If you start with the wrong premise however, in order to help your 'team' win, you won't actually ever fix anything..and children will continue to die while both sides scream about how they are the ones who love children more.