Dating is more toxic and depowering than WoW

[Mistame]

The most common version of this that you see in the United States is fat people that don't think they should have to settle for fat partners.

And it tends to be more prominent with women, due to society's elevation of women over the last few decades. Mix in men's propensity for spelunking in any available cave and there ya go. The reality is that if you're overweight, you'll never be more than a 5/10, regardless of gender.

We are surrounded by 10/10's everywhere.

This is hyperbolic, at best. Your "scale" is fucked up. There are few actual 10/10 people. Even the self-proclaimed 11/10 person in this thread isn't but a low-to-mid 7, pending a shot sans makeup 5. /shrug

Hey, I recently met a Korean Girl who moved to the UK. Who asked me for dating advice. She's been here for three months.

Her name isn't Natta Lmo by chance, is it?

[truckboattruck]

just lose some weight

[Strawberry]

Feminist with colored hair? Is that supposed to be some kind of bad thing?

Yes, they are giving tribute to the Pride parade.

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lol how did u use tinder in thailand? u get a ladyboy to match often?

I dated a Thai girl only once, and it was 7 or so years ago. She was living in Sweden. I never went to Thailand to date girls there. I travel to Thailand because I actually like the country and its nature, not for cheap hookers.

[EyelessCrow]

Yes, they are giving tribute to the Pride parade.

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I dated a Thai girl only once, and it was 7 or so years ago. She was living in Sweden. I never went to Thailand to date girls there. I travel to Thailand because I actually like the country and its nature, not for cheap hookers.

You consider getting a hooker "dating"?

[Mlz]

Your daily dose of incels discussing a woman's appearance.

This is the picture under discussion:


Some of the comments by incels:

Eh shes a high 8 probably but she looks fucking boring. Left her IG after 10 seconds.
Looks like a 90s pornstar. Very good symmetry and proportions but boring, she doesn't have that factor that makes women stand out. She's 27 but her cheekbones, jawline, sunken face (typical for fashion models) and forward chin make her look mid 30s on some of the pics

Yea the dudes callin her goddess are idiots. She looks like literally every attractive white blond girl ever
They all looks like this

This roastie is attractive but she is not my ideal.

I am drunk and this photo angle fucks with me yo. 7/10. Seh´s not my type. Her hair is fucked and her lips are ugly.

She's like a 7 at best lol. You complimented her lips but she clearly has herpes. Her head shape isn't anything special, her nose is longer than it appears, her shoulders and collarbone aren't feminine, she's slouching, etc.

Literally sums up this thread aswell: beggars being choosers.

[Tiwack]

People are 10/10 to me because everyone always manages to pleasantly surprise me. I hate it when people pour so much effort into something that it raises the average bar so high that you can no longer just casually dabble in it. Dating and by extension being attractive has become a lifestyle / hobby that you have to actively pursue.

I wish people committed as much effort to achieving Millennium Development Goals as they commit to looking smexy.

It's natural to relate but be careful to only compare yourself with the one you were yesterday. Live and let live.

[Mistame]

Your daily dose of incels discussing a woman's appearance.

Literally sums up this thread aswell: beggars being choosers.

Not sure what the comments have to do with "incels" or what's wrong with discussion someone's appearance. Personally, I'd have to see her without make up to judge. /shrug

[Spectral]

Your daily dose of incels discussing a woman's appearance.

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Some of the comments by incels:

Literally sums up this thread aswell: beggars being choosers.

Wow:

Her head shape isn't anything special

What the fuck is wrong with these kids? Who even says shit like this? I'm fine with judging appearances and giving ratings and that jazz, but I just can't imagine writing such weird shit. This really does seem like the kind of thing that no one who had any actual sexual experience with actual humans would write.

She looks like literally every attractive white blond girl ever

This ain't wrong... But what's the problem? Yeah, slender young blondes without anything really wrong tend to be pretty hot. Gee, it's almost like we evolved to want to screw any reasonably healthy member of our species.

[Mlz]

What’s wrong with judging someone’s appearance? If this is incel talk then every man I’ve ever met in my life is an incel. Lmao.

It's not about average people discussing appearance. It's about people who claim to be involuntarily celibate having standards. If you're that desperate, literally anything that breathes should be 10/10 in their books. But nah, you get them criticizing women that most people would find stunning. What's even worse is that they have some really precise mathematical standards to measure against (e.g. the angle of jawline or w/e). This, what I suspect, is also what is happening in this thread (although on a lighter scale, obviously): those that cry about not getting dates probably have high enough standards while they themselves meet exactly none.

[Pratt]

As someone who hit his prime before social media was a thing, you guys have no idea how easy you have it now. These complaints are hilarious.

[Akibaboy]

Why not just say "poor people aren't eligible to be dating or having sex"? That's essentially all you said.
All the women you meet are hard working and accomplished and your gamer friends are human filth that wear clothes from 2002? Wow, good to know.

Not at all. It's about how you present yourself to the world and what your aspirations for life are that is attractive to people. Money is not the object here - it's that they have no ambition to be or do anything. On the topic of presenting yourself, I have other gamer friends who make good money as programmers and whatnot, who still have zero clue how to take care of themselves, their homes, their wardrobes when they have all the resources they'd need to do so. On the other hand, one of my poorest friends works part time in a convenience store at near minimum wage while going to school on his own dime... he's had to skip semesters due to lack of funds, primarily only plays free to play games with us or ones his friends buy for him, w/e... but he still manages just fine to take care of his appearance, his health, keep his life and home organized, and present an outlook of where he's going and what he wants to accomplish. I'd say within my group of 10-15 gaming friends, this guy is by far and away the best at attracting the opposite sex and doesn't have an issue finding dates. So it has nothing to do with money.

Just like how I said the dating scene in regards to women has nothing to do with money. There are a few golddiggers out there for sure, but it's a tiny percentage. I think the kind of narrative across this thread is a largely delusional one. The vast majority of women I've dated and encountered on dating apps have their own lives, incomes, and are looking for companionship and not for someone to leech off of.

[RobertoCarlos]

As someone who hit his prime before social media was a thing, you guys have no idea how easy you have it now. These complaints are hilarious.

Yes and no. Its easier to go dumpster diving. But it is harder finding genuine people because the pool gets diluted down with everyone doing selfies with duck lips and side cam to look SEXAY

[Kalset]

I know this is weird advice for people, but I'm going to give it anyway.

Figure out what you would consider an awesome person to be with and what they would be like. I'm not talking magical fantasy unicorn, I'm talking about someone who has traits that you'd genuinely like. Like for me, I'd love to meet a girl who laughs at my jokes, who cares about some of the topics I care about, who has a genuine care for animals and people around her. She's a little sarcastic and a little fiery. I've got this general idea in my head.

Now I consider, if this is the type of girl that I want to meet...what kind of person would she be interested in? Consider that, then start working toward becoming that type of person. There are many things that we ourselves can change that would greatly increase our chances to be compatible with that someone, but until we've done the work to improve ourselves, we don't match up. I know for me, I go to the gym to workout, because I deserve better than how I am right now, and the woman I have some semblance of envisioning in my mind would be interested in a guy who takes care of and cares for himself.

Stop beating on others and on yourselves for not being able to meet standards that random people set, set your own standards for how you want to live and where you want to be, work toward them and realize that as you improve and reach new heights, the people around you that you are attracted to and that are attracted to you tend to fit closer and closer to that idea you've envisioned.

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Dating has always been the same, there's just more doors now

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Before we just didn't know there was more people out there, now we do

[Strawberry]

You consider getting a hooker "dating"?

Fucking read what I was replying to.

[EyelessCrow]

Fucking read what I was replying to.

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I dated a Thai girl only once, and it was 7 or so years ago. She was living in Sweden. I never went to Thailand to date girls there. I travel to Thailand because I actually like the country and its nature, not for cheap hookers.

I did, you just don't know what you're fucking typing.

[Freighter]

I did, you just don't know what you're fucking typing.

It would seem like you don't understand what he posted.

[Morally Grey Storm]

the problem with dating is not the waste of money
the problem with dating is its quite difficult to find a decent person to pursue a long-term relationship with these days
doubly so with the malady of pc-sjw contagion being spreading madly.

[GrinningMan]

Your daily dose of incels discussing a woman's appearance.

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Some of the comments by incels:






Literally sums up this thread aswell: beggars being choosers.

If you think this is scummy, you should see the way women with an axe to grind would talk about her.

Truly, they're their own worst enemies.

[OreoLover]

"Too many options" issue, especially when so many aren't real.

Not a real person, not a person you could connect with, etc.

Met my ideal on a smaller, more tailored site, with no expectation of doing so. 5 years in and romance is strong~