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    How much better would the world be if people befriended different people?

    Should the Trump supporters befriend socially liberal American Muslims? Should rich yoga vegans of the coasts befriend the rural farmers?

    Would the world be a better place?

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    How much better would the world be if people weren’t Homo sapiens sapiens but instead ultra-friendly magical creatures without vices and negative emotions?

    This sounds ridiculous but in a way it’s no less ridiculous than what you asked in the OP. People are different and the older they get the harder it becomes for them to make friends with strangers with whom they have little in common. Would the world be a better place? Probably, but it wouldn’t be our world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CmdrShep2154 View Post
    Should the Trump supporters befriend socially liberal American Muslims? Should rich yoga vegans of the coasts befriend the rural farmers?

    Would the world be a better place?
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    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    Usually this is the case, however, there are exceptions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CmdrShep2154 View Post
    Should the Trump supporters befriend socially liberal American Muslims? Should rich yoga vegans of the coasts befriend the rural farmers?

    Would the world be a better place?
    I don't think this will really matter. We make exceptions for the people we know. Hitler actually had and protected Jewish friends as the friends bit is more relevant to a person than the Jewish bit. Once you know someone they exit their social grouping and enter your friendship circle.

    ..also, those are some really specific groups!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girighet View Post
    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    Fucking exactly. Because hatred is a choice and living with someone’s boot to your neck isn’t life.
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    A lot of ex military people mention meeting people from all over the country. Most of them see it as a positive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Najnaj View Post
    I don't think this will really matter. We make exceptions for the people we know. Hitler actually had and protected Jewish friends as the friends bit is more relevant to a person than the Jewish bit.Once you know someone they exit their social grouping and enter your friendship circle.

    ..also, those are some really specific groups!
    This right here 100% true.

    And there were plenty of Jewish people that thought just get to along with Hitler would fix everything it fucking didn’t.
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    Some sort of common ground is generally needed for friendships that overwhelms differences.

    I can think of a fair few demographics that I would never befriend. Con artists, the willfully ignorant, murderers, thieves, rapists, and so on. Even groups, particularly willfully ignorant, that I empathize with, they don't want to be friends with me because I call them out on their self-destructive behavior.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    You can be friendly to them however. Without trusting them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    Why would I be friendly to people who hate me because I'm a woman or because I'm not white? To people who would either have me and others like me deported or killed if they were in power?
    I can see your point, It's pretty hard to consider being friends with or even friendly to folks always screeching at you that you are racist or sexist all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    Why would I be friendly to people who hate me because I'm a woman or because I'm not white? To people who would either have me and others like me deported or killed if they were in power?
    If you can not see the reason why, then you shouldn't. I do it because I believe it empowers me.
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    Virtually all my friends are east coast liberals. Blue collar, white collar, just about every ethnicity under the sun. I’m a moderate half-Chinese Trump voter mostly disillusioned with this idea that personal politics means anything when it comes to who I’m friends with. The sooner everyone else figures that out the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by D3thray View Post
    Virtually all my friends are east coast liberals. Blue collar, white collar, just about every ethnicity under the sun. I’m a moderate half-Chinese Trump voter mostly disillusioned with this idea that personal politics means anything when it comes to who I’m friends with. The sooner everyone else figures that out the better.
    I assume they do not hate you for voting for Trump, since you still call them friends? And I absolutely agree with your point.
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    No they don’t. We may disagree politically but life’s about way more than politics. Looking forward to 4th of July bash in Columbia this summer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by D3thray View Post
    No they don’t. We may disagree politically but life’s about way more than politics. Looking forward to 4th of July bash in Columbia this summer.
    Good to hear!! Have fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    Yes, people must go to war.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    You mean you can't be friends with people you hate? Do you genuinely believe that you are always the victim?

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    Trying to make friends from certain demographics just to fill your diversity quota is stupid as fuck and you should feel bad for even suggesting it. A friendship is something that happens by chance and develops on its own and over time.

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    We are predisposed to label others as 'us' or 'them'.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Avskildhet View Post
    You can't be friends with people who hate you.
    Don't need to hate people with different opinions.

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