Thanks! I tried tanking a few dungeons as well as dps many more. I'll most likely sub this or next week. Im unable to join a FC yet on a free trial. I have 35 drg/Glad so far...working on puglist. Game seems pretty cool so far. *From a wow player, its a breath of fresh air* FF doesnt have world chat and players don't tend to talk in groups *at least on the JPN server* groups are much friendlier than WoW groups. Players in wow groups can be utter d**s.
The hunter hoe with the least beloe.
I've leveled a tank up to 80. Ran a lot of dungeons. People are friendly most of the time, especially if i told them it is my first time in the respective dungeons. Though from time to time you will find some toxic people. Yesterday when doing the 80 daily dungeon (as DD) i had a tank and a healer who were constantly flaming each other - i just ignored them.
So the community is not 100% friendly, but it seems very open to "noobs". Especially in max level dungeons it is the same rush mentality as in WoW. Not that i heard "GoGoGO", but it is expected to execute wall to wall pulls. Anyway - you have a fast queue as a tank and can get rich on max level as you can farm the high level materia easily.
You can put materia in your gear (like gemming in WoW) - and these materias can be easily farmed when playing a tank as the leveling queue is always looking for tanks. If the bonus is active you get two Materia VII (worth ~ 10k/each) and one Materia VIII (worth ~ 50k). The prices are, of course, for my server
I honestly wouldn't bother with them pre-80. Before that you switch your gear just too often. In my opinion it doesn't really matter, as all classes have ranges where they're stronger/weaker, and materia doesn't make a huge difference there.
One thing to know:
At level 80 you get Materia VII and Materia VIII. Materia VIII is the strongest, but VI (best materia before shadowbringer) is stronger than VII. As the cost is the same in the AH, i strongly suggest to get some Materia VI (if you don't want to take VIII immediatley) and sell any VII - the only real reason to use VII is for overcharging crafted gear, which you probably wont do anyway.
Another reason to use Materia VI is that you can retrieve Materia from your gear, with a fixed percentage of success. For Materia VIII you have a 40% chance to retrieve, for VII it is 80%, but for VI it is 100% - meaning you can re-use your VI materia without ever destroying it.