Being so touchstarved it hurts

[breadisfunny]

I said those who pay for sex are disgusting. Learn to read.

how do you know their personalities without even knowing them?

[kail]

I said those who pay for sex are disgusting. Learn to read.

It's still sex. How does money make something disgusting?

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Why doesn't surprise me that the shaming is coming from a woman. I have no problem getting some, but there was a time in my life when it was a problem. You cannot know what that is like, as a female, all you have to do is look passable and you will have multiple men running over to get you to bed. This does not work for men obviously.

There's nothing wrong with paying for sex, just make sure she's what you actually want. Nothing worse than spending hard earned cash for a 36 year old single mom who will lay there and let you do all the work.

I’m a guy and I think paying for sex is dumb. So you can stop blaming your problems on women now.

[Freighter]

People who pay for sex are disgusting.

I concur.

If I found out someone has paid for sex, I would never consider them to be relationship material. In fact, I wouldn't want to associate with them at all. If I was in a relationship with someone and found it out, I'd leave them.

[Yadryonych]

Things I've learnt from this thread:

Never talk about paid sex to kpop people

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Things I've learnt from this thread:

Never talk about paid sex to kpop people

Paying for sex is disgusting because a lot of women in that industry are trafficked and abused. If you support that industry by paying for sex then you support human trafficking.

[AeneasBK]

Good news guys, there is no such thing as sex trafficking any more because some countries made prostitution legal!

Oh no wait, what a fucking absurd position to assume.

[Yadryonych]

The delusional mind of someone who tries to justify it. If they didn't need the money, they'd never have sex with you. How can you be so deluded to think they want to have sex with you?

If one didn't need money, he'd never work. How can his boss think he wants to work?

Is work officially a rape now?

[Strawberry]

Uh, no, I don't hug pillows. No one should feel touch starved and I believe there's someone for everyone.
I like giving hugs but I do not like being touched randomly.
For example, I have spent some 8 weeks in Thailand, never had a massage even though I was yelled at "massaaaaaaaaaaaaaage?" every 5 meters, every day. Or when my ex unbuttoned my shirt to put her hand inside and I was like "don't do that".
But I don't mind sleeping in a close embrace.

[Cracked]

No, they can't. You're lying.

Maybe you should do some research in this area. :-)

And it doesn't usually work they way of outright refusal either, that would be just bad business practice.

I've seen it quite a few times, some guy (usually fat but rich looking) sets his eyes at one girl at a brothel but she doesn't really like him so she lets him order enough drinks to get him drunk enough at which point he either becomes disinterested in having sex altogether or eventually agrees to go private with someone else.

[Yadryonych]

Yeah, you’re claiming every job is coercion then. Clearly every job is disgusting.

I wont be much surprised if in a few years I will see some Greta Randomberg ranting to 1 million people crowd this very idea of every job is a coercion and capitalist people have to give money away to everyone just because

[Yadryonych]

Have you ever heard of Andrew Yang?

I did some research on him just now and it appears he fled North Korea just to build his own North Korea in the USA

[kail]

Is this a serious question? You'd likely be one of those who thinks slaves are fine because you paid for it.

Prostitute's are slaves now? Are porn stars slaves as well?

[Muajin76]

It feels pretty bad, so i hug my pillow once in a while and it feels a little bit better. Anyone else?

Maybe unplug from the net/online gaming and go socialize. Maybe you'll meet someone you can be with/date.

[Seranthor]

Doesn't mean they're willing.

It's on you to prove they aren't... since of course you are the one claiming they aren't.

[Phon]

@Avskildhet just realized you were lying about prostitution being legal in Sweden... why did you feel the need to lie about it?

It's legal to sell sex in Sweden.

[Dwarfhamster]

It's legal to sell sex in Sweden.

To add to that: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Sweden

[Phon]

Certainly isn’t legal to buy it. As such it’s not what anyone would call legal.

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When it’s only legal for one party involved in a multi-party transaction it’s illegal.

Prostitution is the act of selling sexual favors. That's legal. Why is it so difficult for you to admit you were wrong?

[Phon]

Because it’s not legal to purchase them. As such the transaction itself is illegal, it’s just that only one party gets prosecuted. Why is it so difficult to grasp basic concepts?

It's legal to sell sex. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?

[Phon]

It’s not legal to purchase.

prostitution
the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment.
"the sale of captives into slavery and prostitution"

Prostitution is about selling, not buying.